Yes, but you can finally "overcome" that. I am not saying it is easy, I have had quite a challenge myself. You "will" eventually be able to self talk "over" these troubling memories. Another thing to look into that you may really get a lot out of is DBT. I have heard people say that they were really helped a lot with that. You can look it up on the net and see if there is anything offered in your area for that, often they have DBT workshops with groups.

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