I was thinking the same thing DJ, hot "stuff," what's the "stuff" :-)

Not all conversations in therapy are going to be enlightening and not all expressions, words, metaphors, whatever are going to hit a target. If I were your girlfriend, I'd just chalk it up to his meaning something and my not getting it. What really gets exciting is to call T's on stuff you don't get or don't like and talk abou that. Usually T's are looking for sparks/feelings, reactions, things that matter to one so there's something alive to talk about. It's too late now to guess what might have been meant, the moment is passed but if one doesn't know what is meant then guessing instead of checking it out with the speaker is not a good way to find out. No one other than the T can say what he meant and why he said it.