I do find it impressive when the man pays for my food/dinner on the first date. One of them said "Go to the desk and go get your coffee" - that was ... sort of shocking(?).. on the first date. He also vented about his "pretty xgf of 7 years" (I wasn't impressed with him at all).

Dancer, yes once I offered to pay bc there was no way I would have a 2nd date with him. I don't know why he only ordered a salad anyway it wasn't that much

This isn't first dates but my fiance's sister and her BF split 50/50 everytime. My guy pays for our dinners, and I pay the tip, but I pay full on his birthday.