I while back in T I took a "Schema Quiz" ( a schema is like a pattern of thoughts/behaviours incase you haven't heard of it before). Anyway, I scored high on the perfectionist scale for example and my T shared that when she took it she scored highest on the fear of abandonment scale. The other thing T has shared with me is that she gets nervous about the dentist. Other than those two things I don't know anything about her issues. I am curious but at the same time, I know it is not in my best interest to know too much about T.