I am 5'5" and weigh over 300 pounds. I hate the way I look and wish I could manage to control my weight. Nonetheless my husband tells me I am cute and beautiful. When I complain about my size he reminds me that the masters did not paint skinny women and that he has a classic idea of what makes a woman beautiful.

I don't understand it but I know in his opinion I am beautiful and his saying so makes me happy. It also builds my self confidence and makes me a better person.

I think your husband is just being mean. Time for a serious discussion.