Well I appreciate your advice. He is watching it daily. He has more pictures of other women on his phone than of his own family.

To fill you in, me not fighting with him about porn WAS my comprimise with him, until I found out he was watching it before having sex with me. No, I am not impressed in any way that he would wake ME up to have sex with ME, after he has gotten turned on but the image of another woman.. He may as well cheat, cause I dont want to be his outlet. He can cheat then, I really dont care. Some girls may take that as a compliment but I do not. I think its lowly and insulting.

I do not withhold sex, I just no longer desire to sleep with him. what about his porn usage is sexy to me in anyway? It doesnt turn me on that he does it. Why should I have to accept it? to make him happy? If he cared about my happiness that might be an option but its not more important than his porn.

I dont doubt that he loves me. but why not spend that energy on me then?