i AM MARRIED AND LOVE MY HUSBAND VERY MUCH, BUT THERE ARE ISSUES IN OUR MARRIAGE WHICH LEAVE ME FEELING UNWANTED, HORRIBLY UGLY, INADEQUATE, LESS THAN, NOT GOOD ENOUGH..
He has this idea that to tell me I am pretty sexy or beautiful would be lying. He says he is a christian and if he tells me these things then he would be lying. He goes by the worlds idea of beauty and pretty and sexy.
If you are not perfect in body, hair, face, and flawless then you are not pretty or beautiful or sexy. he says there are 5 types of women..beautiful..pretty..cute,,in between and ugly..I asked him where I fit in and he said i was between inbetween and ugly..this is like a knife in my heart. what do I do to deal with this?