So what I'm hearing is of the following:

1. Just stop going.
2. Taper it off. With some grieving help.
3. Your T moves away.

From those options I have chosen number 2. I gave my T a deadline and we are close, but she didn't agree to that deadline (she didnt disagree either and gave me the option to quit). I guess it is up to me to hold to it. I guess I just expected the T to help me a bit more with the grieving part.