Maybe you need to get used to being treated nice Hammy, you have been treated badly by enough men in your life. Time to turn that leaf over I think.

Spelling a grammar reflects not much in my opinion except maybe an interest in it or not, maybe I am biased. Although I only have my grade 9. I managed to get though college twice, and got past the intake without having to upgrade to get in. I left with a 4.0 when I got my diploma, my assignments were not marked up with red for spelling or grammar. But in the real world.. I just don't really care that much about it. If someone wrote me off because of something like that.. then I would think it's for the best. How would they handle my real flaws? Just don't assume people are not educated enough, or smart enough because they are not passionate about proper spelling and grammar. We are not even talking about text speech here or anything, just small mistakes. You have even made spelling mistakes here, it happens to everyone, some of the time.

I don't think all Indian men are like that.. some are.. some are not. Just like every other race. Hammy this is where your thinking can get you in trouble. I have known you for over a year and I understand a bit how you think. I think you tend to put people in categories based on things you think indicate this or that, like if someone has this job then they are like this, or that, basically stereotyping. I don't think you have any bad intentions about it, I think it might just be how you view things and make sense and organize your world. I think it is something you might want to look at though. You like data.. I know that. Does the data actually back up these assumptions tho?

I just want you to find someone who is good for you and that you can be happy with. I worry that you might write off the person who would give you all that if you keep engaging in that kind of thinking.