I actually agree with you. Sorry but I wouldn't find it flattering either. The how he is using it, I don't actually think that is so great. Wouldn't make me feel great either. I especially don't like other people telling others how they should feel about porn or assuming their way is correct. There are numerous reasons why someone may like or may not like porn. And it doesn't exactly all come down to jealousy like some people assume either. Just because some are ok with it and some became ok with it, doesn't mean what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Not ALL men do watch porn.. generalizations suck. It's not just a man thing, some people do.. some people don't.

I don't think you are wrong here. It's not like you told him he can't ever watch it, you are trying to be felxible even if you don't like it. That is not the case here, and yes if you are supposed to compromise with him, what is he supposed to do.. whatever pleases him with no thought given to you. Sounds kinda like that could become a me me me only type of deal. How is that healthy or good? Maybe he does need to consider your feelings as well and also do some work here? It's not a one way street, relationships don't work that way. It's a team built on mutual love and respect for one another, without that.. then I dunno.

I am not sure what you can do if he isn't going to consider you in this. I really don't know. How is the rest of the relationship outside of this?