he is an idiot. The thing is that he married you because he was attracted to you, most likely right? It is a very shallow man that can't see this and dwells on the fact that we have changing bodies, aging bodies, all of us and aren't going to remain looking 20 soemthing and in the same shape we were when young. A real man would recognize this and continue to see the attraction to his wife with all the changes that might happen. Besides, the physical attraction is only part of the equation, even if in the worst case, (God forbid) didn't age gracefully and gained some weight, the ideal situation would be so much more would be there from being together in a loving relationship so long. What I mean is a man (and woman) would still find their spouse to be attractive because their love grew deeper and they found even more things to draw them together. None of us are going to be the world's perfect image of beauty, but all of us have things about us that make us attractive. Maybe I'm rambling but he's an idiot if he's as shallow as that and it shameful that he uses Christianity as his crutch for being an asshat.