Sorry you're going through this, addiction is apart of my life, from personal experiences, and through my family, Still to this day my mother is a crack cocaine addict. I'll admit, I have put up with my mom entirely to much, she's used me, abused me, and treated me like dirt, as though I owed her something. All it's over been for her is the drugs, nothing else. Well recently I have decided that I'm tired of her having this control over me, and I'm tired of her bringing the dope into my life. So now, although it hurts, I have cut her off completely, no more rides, no more paying her bills, and no more tolerating her b.s. It's a difficult strength, but eventually it has to getr to the point.....I think the junkie asks for it after so many times. Only theyt can help themselves...if they survive it first....think about what's most important to you and your family first.