I think it should be as with birthing plans. A couple can have the best birthing plan for the most natural unmedicated birth, but the situation may develop in such a way that a cesarean becomes necessary so out the window go all the plans for unmedicated vaginal delivery. And in the end it does not matter - what matters is that a healthy baby is ultimately delivered.

Here as well, if you do not have full-blown intercourse during the wedding night but just start becoming familiar with each other's bodies, that is still beautiful and that is your "healthy baby", no matter what the delivery route.

Makes sense?