Sorry but she already said she is not a fan and doesn't want to watch it with him. Why is that not ok, she already did compromise. I am curious why people insist that because they are ok with it, you could be or should be too.

Maybe she wants some romance or something, maybe something more intimate than him watching porn, waking her up..doing it and back to sleep? I am really confused why that is her problem that she needs to fix alone. Seems like it is overtaking real life when you can't have sex with your wife or husband without it? It also turns her off, so that's a bit of a problem. This her sex life just as much as it is his. I really don't get it sorry.

I don't like porn. I know my bf watches it and he can do that, isn't an issue. Do I have to watch it too, or with him? I don't like porn because of sexual abuse I went through as a child, and as a teen and again as an adult. Not to mention other problems with sex industries that I just choose not to support personally. So telling people to just get over it and watch it, despite that they do not want to seems well, short sighted. Just because some people are good with it, doesn't mean everyone else should be too. She seems tolerant enough that he does watch it, but come on.. she isn't asking for that much. Unless his wants trump hers.

I really am actually curious as to why this is the case, I am speaking for myself here.. I see this all the time here and I do not get it.