I obviously hadn't read all her posts properly.
However I was not insisting on her trying to enjoy porn, I was making suggestions. A whole different thing.

People have many reasons for not liking porn, having been abused as you say being one. That is a whole separate issue. That is different. Many say porn degrades women etc. A 101 reasons to dislike it, but its a personal choice. I see no harm at all in it, as I said as long as like anything it doesn't take over. Not being able to have sex without it, becomes a problem.

I stick by my suggestions but accept in this case sharing the pastime is not an option. It does no harm to try , different approaches.

I was not previously, or am not now INSISTING on any tactics to help with this problem, but merely making SUGGESTIONS !