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Originally Posted by JayneDough!
I hear a lot from other post about people wanting to hide their scars so on one will see them. I've even heard others say that so me people have even commented on their scars. It's always been the opposite for me.
I have never hid my cuts or scars and no one has ever said anything to me about them. For the most part I cut my arms and legs, so those would be "normal" places for ordinary cuts to occur I guess. Reciently I've tried cutting across my chest.
This weekend I went to a dance with a low cut dress, so the cut was clearly visable for the world to see, all bright and red. Guess what? Not a single comment. I've always known that no one has ever cared about me, but I thought this gash would get a comment.
I wonder if all of us can just stop worrying about hiding their cuts because it seems that everyone else is wrapped up in their own world and won't see them anyway.
Your Thoughts?
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Im sorry you feel no one cares. Its the worst feeling. People also may think or know you self harm and may feel awkward saying anything about it. I hope you are ok. I know for me. I try to hide my scars. I know people dont care about me. But im just insecure and if someone were to say something I would just feel terrible about myself. I would feel even more weak. And like they are judging me. My family is different though. Like my mother knows I do now. So she brings it up a lot. She likes to make me into a bigger failure. I also suffer from an eating disorder. So she says **** a lot. For example the other day I ate a piece of French toast which I usually dont eat. And she says" Oh no. Better go take a box of laxative, and cut your wrist. And bleed. Loss of blood will make you lose weight too." She said it right infringement of my brother and stepfather. I felt so defeated. I hate it. This is why I usually hide my scars. Hope things get better for you.
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