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Old Nov 30, 2012, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr. Venomous View Post
Whoswho, you say that a lot of those people who are just ridiculously good at everything are jerks, but even if that is true, many of them have relationships. In fact being a jerk seems like an asset for a man to build a relationship with a woman, because the amount of women that are attracted to jerks is innumerable.
I was unaware that being in a relationship meant that one is not a jerk or had anything to do with one's morals... Where is the correlation between being single and being a jerk?

I've read some of your other threads and this seems to be a problem for you. I'm certainly not the most experienced of knowledgeable about relationships, but to casually generalize that "all women are attracted to jerks" is kind of demeaning. I mean, I can turn around and say, "well, all men are attracted to sluts." Right? And I can even say that to a limited extent (quite limited, indeed!) that this is true, but for one thing, going out wearing as little as possible without getting arrested probably won't get me a relationship, or at least not one that I want.

Just ask the women of PC: I'm sure most of them would say that they appreciate a partner who is understanding, compassionate, etc. I don't think I've ever had a friend ask me, "You know, I really want to date a guy who is a total *** all the time. Do you know where I can find one?"

Being single doesn't mean you have to be lonely...
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