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Originally Posted by rainbow8
struggling, I'm the same way too. When I feel close to my T, and super connected, it makes me feel frustrated with the rest of my life. It makes me wish I could see T every day!  If for whatever reason I feel distant from her, it's easier to go about my everyday life. It's such a push/pull. I want RL to be like therapy, but therapy, when I feel connected, is so much better that it's like being teased! Like a number of you said, then I want to reach out to T more because I feel so good. The best path is a middle ground, which is difficult.  |
it is a tease! i know T herself isnt teasing me, but the feelings feel like a tease because its there and its good and then its for the most part unavailable in the rest of your life. and i know the goal is to take what you learn/have in T and try to replicate in RL but it took me like a freaking year to get close to T and our entire relationship is about me!!!!
Have any of you discussed this with your T, like how to fix or handle better?