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Originally Posted by Readytostop
I think in the same way...when you put everyone else's needs in front of yours... and then you actually start to just "take care of yourself" like admiting you need to meet your basic physical needs for sleep, medicine, etx... It feels like you are being self centered because it is so foreign...
so long answer to that I think "self centered" in general is definitely a perspective thing...
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Yes, I cant find the happy medium between self less and selfish.
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Originally Posted by Readytostop
But sometimes I do ask myself... what do I get out of it... what need is getting met by allowing bad boundaries?
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Sadly for me the answer is always, "they seem to like me"