Gain weight, loose weight, age is not usually kind......there are things that we can do that can help....but there are some things that we just need to accept.

Would never want to look like someone else though.....just work on the me that I am but would never do surgery to change anything other than the oral surgery to remove my teeth that have broken off because of the bad enamel I ended up with because of being sick & the antibiotics I took during those years my adult teeth were forming. It would be nice so smile again & not have a mouth full of broken off teeth....but haven't had the money....next year, going to the dental school & that is becoming my NEW priority.

Hope you can find some way of accepting yourself & working on the things that you are able to change for the better & mostly if necessary for your health because that should be the priority