What things are you concerned about and why did you first begin to have that insecurity?

Your concerns may have some validity. Sometimes, if it looks like a duck and walks like a duck, it IS a duck....

Just something to think about. Granted, I don't know any details but, sometimes, our insecurities are correct but sometimes they are not. Many, I would think, it comes down to his actions. Something about his actions are causing concern for you. That should be discussed with him, his actions, perhaps....

Anyone else have thoughts?