Now I feel guilty about being self-centered. Maybe it is being self-centered to think I should be able to make everything right for everyone else. I mean, who am I to think I can do that?

T and I were talking a bit about this yesterday. I feel guilty that I don't take as good care of my father's needs as my sister does since my mother died. Like I can really even know what his needs are and I should be able to meet them from 375 miles away.