Thanks so much everyone! I appreciate the care and thought that went into replies. I think everyone who replied is honest and aren't just saying what I want to hear But even if you aren't sure, I appreciate your caring enough to reply,

I personally wouldn't presume to judge someone's progress in a negative way.... not exactly helpful to anyone including the judger in my opinion.

The "golden rule" comes to mind

I hope this reply is "ok"..... sigh

Love,
Fuzzy