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Old Nov 30, 2012, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna View Post
I found the self centered thing hard to swallow as well, RS brings up a good point too. The quote and the self appointing guilt , I do this.

Earthmamma / RS - the book is written for women, I agree men can feel this way.

RS-its an interesting question you pose. I get my needs met by meeting others needs, so I guess that would be self centered too, however being self centered doesn't have to be a bad thing right? I mean it has an ugly connotation to it, but it can be a good thing too as I see therapy as very self centered.
We all have needs and they are generally "selfish" needs. But unless we are babies, we must take some responsibility for meeting those needs.

"I'm not selfish. I'm taking responsibility for my own needs."
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