My T gives me the opportunity to make the same unhealthy choices as I work through growing and evolving in T. After leaving my ex-husband and certain unhealthy friendships, T told me that he didn't expect me to make healthy new choices right away. I need to have the freedom of making the mistakes I need to in order to make my own path towards health. It can't be his path, or my path made by him...it has to be truly mine.

So, unless I'm in real physical danger, T will let me learn through my life experiences.