I with Lee. Don't forget the strains that both you and your wife have undergone in the past. It takes time and a lot of effort (and devotion) on both sides to get through incidents like these. If you want your marriage to work, you are going to have to avoid situations like these.

Maybe coming up with a new fun, family activity would help your family become closer and more trusting of one another. Re-building bonds isn't an overnight process. It takes time.

Best wishes!