I guess it just depends on personality. I appreciate my husband's reminders. I have an alarm set on my phone that reminds me to take them, but often I'm busy when it goes off and ignore it, thinking I will get to it a bit later, but forgetting. Before we go to bed he'll casually check the pill box and if it still has the pills in it, he'll bring it in with a smile and hand it to me and ask how I'm feeling and if there is anything else he can get me. I never feel like he's nagging. It is extremely helpful to me. I do get how it could be perceived as nagging if the question were asked in an argument. But that's not how I think you meant. In my marriage, it's done out of love and concern, and I've never felt annoyed or upset by it. I appreciate his concern and know it comes from his love. I guess judging on the responses though many spouses might have strong opinions differently. So it definitely seems like something to discuss and ask him about.