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shortandcute · Dec 01, 2012, 03:48 PM

On my (ex)Facebook account, there were some people that had posted some of their political views on my wall; one of the statements, i agreed with and so I pushed the "like" button. Well, my stepmother-who was on my friends list--sent me a really nasty message about my "inflammatory political statements," and how "hateful" and mean and nasty I was being; and that I was very hurtful and that I was alienating people from me! Oh I was so mad--I was just agreeing with someone!
I sent her back a message saying that all I did was agree with someone, and that if she was going to get after me, she needed to get after everyone else who posted anything political. I also told her that if someone was going to feel "alienated" because I did't agree with them, then that was there problem, not mine!
Then the very next day, I deactiviated my FB account. oH, I am so upset right now--and is making my depression worse. I have had this my whole life; my family has always been very opinionated--to the point where its caused damage--but as soon as I had an opinion, well, that was a different story! The same for when I stood up for myself. All of a sudden, I was mean, nasty, bad-tempered, argumentive--my oldest sister beat the tar out of me when I was 20 because I had the audacity to have my own opinion!
I AM SO SICK OF THIS!!!!! I'm sick of my family treating me this way and I am sick of Facebook! And now my stepmother is probably going to "tattle" on me to my oldest sister and my son about how "mean" I am!!!!!!! She has done that before--once when my dad accused me of "judging" my mom (to whom he was no longer even married), I defended and explained myself. I found out my mistake that, afterwards, my stepmom

had written a very lengthy letter to my son that I was unforgiving and mean and nasty and the problem was that I just had "issues." She didn't even have the gawl to tell ME that-she went to my son about it and put him in the middle.