I think you should stop giving him the money. He does need to learn to do things on his own. I know it is very difficult to see your son walking around aimlessly though, but I see this as enabling him to keep doing this. You have to somehow make him stand on his own 2 feet at some point. Get a real job! You have done your best for him and now it is time to kick him out of the nest so to speak. just my opinion. good luck!