I understand Jan

but at the end of the day it is someone else's pain you're reading

do you really have a right to be triggered by that?

i think not, cos the person who was posting was in a very bad state

the best we can do is try our best to remind ppl of triggers that may be forthcoming.

but i don't begrudge someone for talking about something i am sensitive too, usually, (i learnt a lesson on that)

so [unmentionable] i think we have to take into account everything, not just whether it is triggering an individual.

thank you Fuzzy