I watch it alone. I watch w/ my H. He watches it w/ out me. It's all OK. It has opened alot of doors to communication that we would not have otherwise been able to explain or express. So it is a good thing. My H and I both have a very limited amount of sexual experience to bring to the table. Which is not a bad thing but porn has opened our eyes to the possibilities.

In my own personal time I like female friendly, romantic not BSDM. Though there is a time and place for that as well just not my typical viewing preference. I have watched lesbian clips and that does not offend me but I do not want to give it a try.

My H has no issues w/ my viewing prefrences. He'll ask me from time to time "is there anything you have run across you'd like to show me". As for magizines, same thing No issues there. When it comes to being female and viewing the female body, a female body and form is designed to be pretty and it was and is intended to be seen that way in some contexts. Just as the male body was designed to be masculine and muscular or more muscle mass then a womans it's ok to view men and there bodies as well.

I tell my H "We are married not blind". So look, enjoy from a distance, as an art form as a creation of Gods. It's all ok. But don't abuse a good thing. So enjoy your body and what humanity stirs in you.