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Originally Posted by Leed
Where is your DAD when all this is going on?? Doesn't HE stand up for you? Or does he go wimpy over her, and not say anything? He should at LEAST keep your sister from pounding the daylights out of you, which I think is pretty elementary at this stage of the game! Afterall, you're ADULTS! isn't having physical fights a bit childish???
Your Father needs to STEP UP and put his WIFE in her place -- which is NOT humiliating you!!! She has NO business getting involved in your life or "disciplining you" for God's sakes!! You're an adult, and you can THINK AND DO whatever you want! Tell her to go to HE#@. Why do you put up with this?? You're not a child -- stand up for yourself and put an end to this! You can't be walked over unless you lay down. 
Your step mother doesn't understand where her "place" is. She's ONLY your father's wife. That's all. You girls are adults. You don't need disciplining anymore. She needs to stay OUT of your lives. Talk to your Dad about it, unless he's just useless.
Best of luck and God bless. I wish you the very best. Hugs, Lee  |
Well, my dad is pretty useless--in fact, he loves when my stepmother comes to his rescue! He is very abusive to her but has somehow twisted her mind into thinking he is a wonderful man. And I do stand up for myself, but then everyone gives me a bunch of crap about it--like what my step mother has done and my sister pounding on me! As far as my dad, he wasnt there when that happened. He basically doesn't want anything to do with us. He physically abused my older siblings and younger brother, sexually abused his daughters, and mentally and emotionally abused all of us. And now he doesnt want anything to do with us. Oh, occasionally he'll make an appearance to look a good dad, but that's it. He's got my stepmother convinced that he is a poor little victim of his unforgiving children.