Dude, you're only 16. I don't know if this place has many teens that go through the same thing since it's a psychiatric forum. Nothing wrong with you. Teens go through this stuff, your hormones are going haywire. Nothing wrong wit you. Is it possible to talk to your school counselor? My cousin is 16 as well and I know he talks to a counselor, I made him join the chess club, and video gaming club. He also plays soccer after school - this isn't to make you do what other people want - but this is an opportunity to go out and socialize with your peers. Do things to find out what you like. People your age are growing up and finding themselves, you get to do that while playing / talking / sharing interests with your peers. If a realtinshp isn't at the top of your list - why are you worrying about it? Don't pressure yourself, do what matters right now, stay focused in school