How stupid am I?!? Next week is the 4yr anniversary for my son, and I am now ready and on mon am going to tell CPS that they can keep me out of the loop now where my no1 daughter is concerned. They uplifted her in April/May to a caregivers house because she was so violent towards no2, and it was meant to be temp. Now they are supporting my ex's application for full custody; they do not tell me about hospital appts (a lung function test that is abnormal, related to her heart condition) and school meetings- there should at least have been a courtesy call about that one- and this weekend was my access wkend but they gave him the custody rights to take her 1000km to the chns hosp (also in the same town where my son is buried), where they have encountered probs (usual story with her lol) and instead of being back yesterday will not be back til wed earliest. I have gone to hell and back with all these decisions 'against' me and cannot take it any more.
sorry... just had to have a rant and get it out