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Old Dec 02, 2012, 05:09 AM
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I've always liked porn (although, oddly, historical and some other romance novels turn me on more), and never had a problem with a guy watching it (and I don't mind watching with him), unless he's watching it obsessively. You know, I'm here and I need attention, LOL!

I'm not turned on by gay porn, but I don't mind watching it. I'm not into anything too freaky, either, but as long as it's consenting adults, I generally feel anything is okay. (That means no bestiality or necrophilia, for the record.)

In the past several years, I've had almost no physical desire for sex, so I've not been looking much at porn or erotica. I want to FIX THIS!!! I am not one of those women who don't mind that their sex drive is dwindling. Sex has always been painful for me (intercourse, specifically), but I can masturbate and find pleasure without inserting anything inside me, so this really distresses me. One would think I'd be happy to not desire sex since it's painful, but I know how to get pleasure from it. It's just rare these days. I've brought it up with gynecologists but they just tell me to use Zestra (http://www.zestra.com/), but that is messy and didn't help that much. It feels kind of good, but I want to increase my sex DRIVE, not just get turned on once I start masturbating: I want to get aroused without having to start the sex first, you understand?

Sorry, got in a bit of a tangent there. Anyway, that's my answer to the question.
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