I just had a session with my therapist last weekend and I'm due to see her again next Saturday.

During the session, we touched a lot of issues - primarily my dad and grandma's death. Those were the topics I intended to speak about. But towards the end, the discussion veered to my recent relationship with a much older man. I wasn't comfortable divulging the details and so I didn't disclose a lot of these stuff (even lied about some parts)

Now I have thought about it and would like to talk to her about it. But the thing is some parts of it is related to Sadism and Masochism and I'm not sure if she is capable of handling it. I don't wish to be "treated" by someone who has no experience in this field. Would it be okay if I ask her whether she has had any experience in dealing with these issues? Or would that sound rude?

-- Juju.