I have zero, well almost zero sex drive. Porn does help for me. But I can take it or leave it. Sex really doesn't matter that much, The act it's self is quite
'fruitless". Oral is another story. Alone or w/ someone. I have preformance anxietys to so I just don't care for sex of any type really.

Porn has been therapeutic for me. It has showed me sex is not necessacarily dirty and bad. It can be shared in love w/ some one you enjoy or love. After rape I didn't think sex was anything but bad. But porn, the right kinds, have showed me it is ok. That being alone w/ yourself is ok, that sex is a gift not an object to be controlled and had.