I've been without my ex for nearly a year too and I'm nowhere near the 'getting over it" stage either. He, however, seemed to be over it the second he moved out. I don't think I will ever move on or come to terms with it. I'm sorry for your pain and I'm sorry I don't have good advice for you. I just wanted you to know that I understand.

"Sometimes it takes other people to point reality out to those who don't live there"
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