Hah.. "calling it off" would be an overstatement. It doesn't even get that far most of the time. It usually goes something like this: I meet a guy, he asks me to hang out a few times, we do the usual song and dance if you know what I mean, then he pulls away and becomes a casual friend. The closest I've come to a steady dating situation was last year when I hung out with this one guy on a regular basis who liked me just enough to keep doing so but not enough to actually be my boyfriend, as he so stated. Of course, shortly after he met someone he actually liked and whom he is now dating. I never asked him why he didn't like me, I just accepted that for whatever reason I don't do it for him. Whatever. *shrug*