agen, ali, thanks TONS for the advise. as wth evrbody. trutth. and ya did all lthat wtth a migrane?! wow! big thanks! i truly undrrstand i'm walkng a thin line, and thats wwhy i came heer, to ask ffor help. evry time i tryd to ask him to do anythng, like take out the garbag for me, or wood you driv me tto the store, he wood screem at me. i no somthng is bad.
thanks for the advise. showin it to my hubby. tthen we ccan ttalk. i'l post agen. the advvise is apresheatd, ttruth.

sara