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Old Dec 02, 2012, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted by elliemay View Post
I haven't really thought about that approach. Honestly, I don't know if I could talk to him or not.

I know it may sound crazy, but I think it might hurt a lot to talk to him again.

I can't invite that kind of hurt back into my life.
Hate that stuck feeling. I think this is very telling. Could it be that you're feeling stuck with current T not so much because of what's happening or not in the room, but because of what needs to happen with former T?

I could easily see feeling aimless and shaken by being asked to set goals with a new T, if I were still carrying unfinished business with former T. It might even feel weirdly disloyal deep down.

Last edited by feralkittymom; Dec 02, 2012 at 07:34 PM. Reason: grammar police
Thanks for this!
elliemay