Hi Amelie,

I can understand your distress, but just because he hasn't called does not necessarily mean he's not interested in you. He may have other issues going on that have nothing to do with you.

If I were in your situation, I would call him (even if he said he'd call) and ask him casually if he still wanted to get together, and mention that since you hadn't heard from him you just wanted to know what was going on so that you could make other plans without worrying if he is going to call at the last minute. I think if he knows that you have a busy and full life (whether you do or not) it will make him realize that you are not just sitting around waiting for him to call.

Whatever happens, don't be down on yourself, ok? You are special and worthy of love and respect, and if he really isn't interested, then it's his loss.

Hugs,
Sujin