I don't know, Fuzzy. But I think there are some people who are manipulative and for somebody else to see that doesn't neccessarily mean that that person him/herself is manipulative.
Although if the person sees manipulation in many areas where there isn't any manipulation-it may be insecurity or paranoia from the person seeing/feeling it.
I think we all get a little paranoid and insecure.
(((((Fuzzy)))))