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Originally Posted by Bob J.
It's one thing to make a therapeutic contract to eat because it's something we need to do for ourselves, and another to be asked to do the same thing to keep someone else from worrying.
Sorry she has not figured out the motivational difference between the two, but she's still learning.
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Thanks for your input because I didn't know how to explain it to her. I am still bothered by what she said. I am still engaging with the ED but still I think about her and it stresses me out. Its like now when I tell her I dont want to hear her how bad she feels, how stressed out she is.
I already struggle with having to take care of others and knowing how to make my boundaries and now I feel I have take care of her too so she can feel comfortable.
what am I to do?