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Originally Posted by feralkittymom
Hate that stuck feeling. I think this is very telling. Could it be that you're feeling stuck with current T not so much because of what's happening or not in the room, but because of what needs to happen with former T?
I could easily see feeling aimless and shaken by being asked to set goals with a new T, if I were still carrying unfinished business with former T. It might even feel weirdly disloyal deep down.
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Sadly, the business with my previous therapist has to be finished, except for the grieving I think.
And the comparisons, the endless, endless comparisons.
Which I think emanates from the grieving as well.
As I said, and actually do believe, this current guy is a good person. Perhaps even quite skilled in some ways. He just very very different.
I really wish I could get mad at him - this new guy, but I think those days are over. The anger left, and allowed the fear to surface.