I think Seeker has a valid point too. Sometimes it's best to just let things go. I was just stating what I would do, and what I have done in situations like this. I'm just one of those people who want to know what's up, whether it's a good thing or a bad thing. I like communication.I also like to put closure on things, so that I don't dwell on whatever or whoever I'm having a problem with, or wonder what could have been, or why it didn't work out, etc.

I think the main point all of us are trying to make is that you are special, Amelie, and deserving of being treated with respect.

Sujin