Thread: pro's and con's
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Old Dec 03, 2012, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Victoria_20 View Post
what happens when the pro's and con's don't outweigh eachother?
yesterday my bf called me a **** and told me i should just leave, which he quickly followed up with "i'm sorry" and "i didn't man any of it"
From what you've said, I wonder, is this a pattern of behavior for him when you fight and argue? If it were an isolated event I would let it go but somehow I don't think it is.

Regardless of the reasons for your bickering and fighting, at the very least, my thought is that you do go to your friends if it's feasible, even if only to get some space and time to think. Perhaps work on these things together while you're apart and assess whether you want to get back together after this?