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Originally Posted by LydiaB
Sannah that's a very gutsy thing to say when you don't know the whole story. Only reading its and bits over an internet forum of what I write when I am upset. For all you know that team leader really is abusive. My mom says she is. And she's a therapist herself. And look at what you just said to me. I've never had issues with ANY other team I've worked with. I've always left on good terms.
But it's my fault.
Have you ever been abused Sannah? Well guess what? You were the problem. How's it feel?
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I don't think Sannah was trying to say that it was your fault you are being abused by your team. No one deserves or invites abuse. And you are right that we only know slivers of your story. We can only know what you tell us, so we might miss the mark.
What I took from Sannah's words is something I think my therapist has tried to tell me. I very often cannot control others' actions, only my response to them. It is way easier said than done.
How can you get away from this team quickest? I genuinely don't understand. Are you mandated to be with them? Why not get a list of in network therapists from your insurance company and pick one. Any one. It would seem anything to get you away from the team would be best?