What's your sexual fetish or fantasy ? Has anyone explored a fantasy into real life ? Was it as good as the fantasy ? Would you reccomend going for it, making a fantasy real or is it best left as fantasy ?
My bf and I have often shared our fantasy of having a 3some, but I know we'd never pursue it. I wouldn't anyway and can't help wondering if he would. What red blooded male would want 2 women in bed with him. I imagine most men if asked would find this a turn on.
I for one, don't want to see my man having sex with another woman, although I think the turn on for him would be seeing me, with a woman.

As for fetishes, well we are quite tame I suppose in the bedroom. I have to have my heels/boots on. Having sex with my underwear on, and heels is a turn on. I hate to be completely naked, prefer to keep my sexy lingerie on.
I'm not into spanking or dominance, BDSM, or a-al doesn't do it for me. I've tried a-al but it doesn't appeal to me, much to my bf's regret. What is the attraction ? Is the 'naughtiness' of it ? I think it's quite unatural, just my p.o.v.

We both enjoy porn, is that a fetish ? We love watching films together, getting excited, knowing soon we'll be having sex. Great visual foreplay. He enjoys the girl on girl action and I find it all erotic.

What about golden showers, does anyone find them erotic ? Do you engage in this activity ? For me the whole total abandonment, letting go, would be a turn on. It for me wouldn't be to humiliate my partner, but to totally abandom myself to him. I must say anything other than pee play is a total no go. (sc-t play) that's gross.

I also must admit I recently read about adult nursing relationships. That sounds erotic, I love my man sucking my t-ts, and feeding him is a fantasy. Not that I would actively pursue that, purely for practical reasons, but some women force lactation primarily for their men. What do you think ?

I think fetishes and fantasies are healthy, and stop sex becoming boring. Variety is the spice of life.

I think the time to worry is when you can't have sex without your fetish or fantasy.

I wonder how many others share my fantasies.

What fetish or fantasies do you have ?

Have you ever made a fantasy become real, did you regret it ?

I am interested in your thoughts