I have a better understanding now, Seeker. (((Patty)))

I think you are right as far as Amelie letting things go and not calling the guy. I was just stating what I have done in the past and what worked for me. I realize that this isn't the right solution for everyone.

Thank you for letting me see things from a different viewpoint!

(((Amelie))), I hope you are ok. My thoughts are with you!

Sujin